A Father's Story of Autism, Meltdowns, and Learning to Hear What His Son Couldn't Say
"He had a great day," the teacher says. And every afternoon, Simon Hale and his wife braced at their own front door — because they knew what a great day cost their son, and they knew what was coming.
If you know that front door, this book was written for you.
Before the Storm is the true story of a family of seven and the boy at its center: a twelve-year-old who masks heroically through every school day and falls apart only at home, in the one place safe enough to fall. A boy who apologizes from inside his own meltdowns. Who has broken more windows than his father can count — and whose snorting laugh turns every room toward it.
With unflinching honesty and unexpected humor, a father tells the parts of this life nobody posts about: the hour-long storms held in a parent's arms, the marriage that became a logistics operation, the bulldog who does the calming no person can, the brothers who make sure the youngest guy in the room always believes the party came for him.
And then he tells you about the realization that changed everything — that his son's body had been broadcasting every storm hours before it hit, in a language no one had ever been equipped to hear.
This is not a book about fixing a child. It's about finally hearing one.
For every parent who has swept up the glass, endured the stares in aisle seven, and wondered at midnight if their family is the only one: you're not.
Genres
MemoirsFamily
ISBN
9798907338364
Format
Print / Paperback
Publication Date
October 20, 2026
MSRP
$15.99
Status
Forthcoming
Target Audience
Family
Contributor
Simon Hale
Author
Simon Hale is the father of five sons, the youngest of whom is autistic. Before the Storm is his first book — an honest, unsentimental, and often funny account of raising a son who couldn't always put his experience into words: the meltdowns nobody posts about, the joy nobody warns you about, and the slow work of learning to hear him. He writes for the parents who are still in the thick of it, especially the ones who feel alone in the hardest hours. He writes under a pen name to protect his son's privacy.