Reactive Abuse, the DARVO Reversal, and How to Reclaim Your Story When You've Been Blamed for Someone Else's Harm
You were the one harmed. So why are you the one being called the abuser?
When someone reverses the story, denies what they did, attacks you for naming it, and casts themselves as the real victim, you can end up blamed for the very harm done to you. A single reaction gets filmed. A pattern gets rewritten. Slowly, you start to wonder whether the accusation is right.
Named as the Abuser gives you a fair way to weigh that question and answer it. It shows you how to tell a reaction under pressure from a genuine pattern of harm, own what is truly yours while refusing the false whole, stay steady when others believe the story, and rebuild trust in your own character.
Grounded in research and built around realistic cases, this is a clear, practical guide for reclaiming your story.
Name the tactic. Reclaim your story.