155 Questions Intending Spouses Must Ask Each Other Before Marriage

This book, 155 Questions Intending Spouses Must Ask Before Marriage, is a prophetic, practical manual for building a God-centered covenant, not just a contract. It confronts the crisis of assumption, urging couples to replace romantic fantasy with biblical truth through courageous, Spirit-led conversation. The core thesis is that marriage is a divine covenant where transparency is an act of worship. Ignorance destroys; revelation protects and prepares. The 155 questions are surgical tools, not a checklist, designed to uncover the full truth of a partner's spiritual life, family background, health, finances, emotional health, past relationships, and moral history. The process is framed as a spiritual pilgrimage. Couples are guided to create a safe space, bathe every conversation in prayer, and seek godly counsel—especially when answers reveal red flags. The goal is discernment: distinguishing between burdens to carry together and deal-breaking patterns of unrepentance. The book culminates in crafting a Shared Covenant Vision Statement—a unifying document for the marriage's mission—and insists on structured pre-marital counseling as a non-negotiable step of humility and wisdom. Ultimately, it’s a call to build a marriage that withstands storms and glorifies God, founded on the rock of Christ and rigorous, loving honesty.